How to Compliment a Strong Woman

Want to compliment a strong woman in your life who lifts you up? Maybe she's your relative, your friend, or your colleague. However she's connected to you, it's important to make sure she feels valued for all that she does. Since she'll love to hear about her inner beauty and best qualities, we've compiled a list of sincere praise that's sure to make her smile. If you want to compliment a strong woman, start with what's beneath the surface—read on for examples of exactly what to say and tighten your bond with her!

This article is based on an interview with our dating coach, John Keegan.

[Edit]Steps

[Edit]“I’m so proud of everything you’ve done.”

1. Celebrate her accomplishments. Even when her achievements seem effortless, she still devoted a lot of time and energy into getting where she is today. Point out the triumphs she should be proud of and cheer her on for making her dreams a reality.
   
   • “Congrats on your acceptance to grad school! 🎓 I’m not even surprised!”
   • “You passed your CSA! 🎉 Guess you’ll be doing my taxes soon!”
   • “Of course your wedding planning business is thriving! I always believed in you.”

[Edit]“You are so genuine!”

1. Praise her personality traits. Remaining honest and authentic to who she is requires consistency and courage. Tell her that you see how she’s developed her character and held onto the inner values or qualities that define her. She’ll feel fully recognized and appreciated.^[1]
   
   • “I don’t know anyone with more conviction than you. 💪”
   • “You’re so honest and transparent. 🪞 I know I can trust you.”
   • “I appreciate how open-minded you are. You think about every perspective.”

[Edit]“You have so many skills!”

1. Point out her talents. All strengths and abilities demand a lot of patience and discipline. If she has any special capabilities that really “wow” you, then congratulate her for them. You’ll give her a spark of motivation to push past her limits and discover new heights.
   
   • “You sing like you’re classically trained! 😮! I can’t believe you’re self-taught!”
   • “You’re an amazing powerlifter. 🏋️‍♀️ Your IG account definitely inspires others!”^[2]
   • “Your graphic design blows me away! Those landscapes look so real.”

[Edit]“You’re incredibly insightful.”

1. Value her intelligence. Her cleverness is the result of focus and determination. Compliment her study habits, her thoughtful comments, and her observational skills. When you analyze how witty she is, she’ll glow with pride.^[3]
   
   • “You have the best social commentary. I learn so much about the world. 🌎”
   • “You’re so perceptive. 🧐 I don’t think you miss a single detail.”
   • “It feels like you’ve read every bestseller and know every pop culture reference!”

[Edit]"You’re so caring.”

1. Appreciate her kindness. She expresses so much empathy and thoughtfulness because she concentrates on what everyone needs. Honor that she thinks outside of herself so often and bring up how valuable her heart is. She’ll know that her generosity matters to you.^[4]
   
   • “I love seeing you with your students! 👩‍🏫 You must be their favorite teacher.”
   • “You’re always looking for ways to help. 🔍 I see how thoughtful you are.”
   • “Your heart is so radiant. Your compassion really shines through.”

[Edit]"You’re such a risk-taker!”

1. Marvel at her bravery. She pushes past her comfort zone because she has causes she truly believes in. Acknowledge how much boldness it took to announce what she finds acceptable in this world. When you praise her for standing up, she’ll feel renewed faith in her actions.
   
   • “It was courageous of you to speak so clearly and passionately at the town hall!”
   • “You're such a bold director. Your documentary was really eye-opening. 🎥”
   • “It was very brave of you to speak so vulnerably about your upbringing. 💛”

[Edit]"You’re an amazing role model.”

1. Tell her she’s a positive influence. Since she’s so inspirational, she knows that others watch her and take notes. Reassure her that she’s doing an amazing job and that she always leaves a great impression. She’ll be relieved that she’s made her mark in her community.
   
   • “It’s cool you’re off social media and just call people! I’ll try that!📱"^[5]
   • “Your commitment to health inspires me. Now I’ll take up running! 🏃‍♀️”
   • “I appreciate your mentorship. You’ve driven me to really push myself!”

[Edit]“You make everyone smile!”

1. Say her happiness is contagious. She’s a force of nature that manages to remain optimistic in every situation. Describe the wonderful effect she has on people and the way she adds joy to their day. She’ll be glad to know she has so much power over a crowd.
   
   • “Your laugh brightens up the whole room! ☀️”
   • “That enthusiasm of yours is incredible! 💎”
   • “The world seems brighter thanks to your presence!”

[Edit]“You express yourself so well.”

1. Speak about her eloquence. Admire how she puts a lot of thought into every answer or comment. Discuss how much she has a way with words and provide details about why you were so moved. You’ll encourage her to keep saying what she has on her mind.^[6]
   
   • “You find the best words for any situation. Your speech was so moving. 🫂”
   • “The way you describe the world around you is so poetic! 🪶✨”
   • “You’re so creative and precise when you make your case!”

[Edit]“I know I can count on you!”

1. Thank her for being reliable. Express gratitude for how dependable she is and point out how much she contributes to any project she’s a part of. Also share all the valuable teamwork skills she has. She’ll feel nourished by your kind words.
   
   • “I appreciate you bringing so much research to the presentation! 📚”
   • “We’re all grateful that you’re always willing to organize events! 🙏 🎉”
   • “Our team can always depend on you to offer a fresh outlook!”

[Edit]“You’re such a hard worker.”

1. Praise her work ethic. Even if she’s tired or stressed, she still looks within and finds the drive to take on any task. Give her a sincere pep talk and tell her that her follow-through is incredible. It might just give her the extra boost she needs to get through the day.
   
   • “Your discipline is unmatched! 😊”
   • “I’m in awe at how you stay energized all day! 🔋”
   • “You have such a positive attitude about your job!”

[Edit]“Your friendship means the world to me.”

1. Treasure her for being a good friend. Despite all that she juggles, she always looks out for her loved ones. Say that her friendship is a true prize and that you’ll always treat it as precious to you. You’ll warm her heart and remind her that you’re one of her greatest allies.
   
   • “You are the most amazing confidante. 💖 Thank you for listening.”
   • “Our friendship has such a big impact on my life! I cherish it. 🙌”
   • “Anyone who can count you as a buddy is truly lucky!”

[Edit]References

1. ↑ [v161147_b01]. 29 June 2021.
2. ↑ https://thefeministgadabout.com/2019/05/29/how-to-pay-a-compliment/
3. ↑ https://everydayfeminism.com/2013/05/how-to-compliment-a-woman-without-objectifying-them/
4. ↑ [v161147_b01]. 29 June 2021.
5. ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2689844/
6. ↑ [v161147_b01]. 29 June 2021.